John Cena has caused a stir on social media after revealing why he doesn’t plan on having children anytime soon, with many fans divided over his explanation.
The WWE legend and actor shared his thoughts at a Fan Expo during a Q&A session, when a fan asked if he was looking forward to starting a family. Cena responded honestly, saying he currently has no plans to have children. He then elaborated, explaining that his non-stop career demands make it difficult for him to envision being a father right now.
“I’ve been working straight for 43 days, and I’ve got another 20 to go,” Cena explained. “If I were to bring a life into this world that needs environmental nurture and unconditional love, I know that takes time. And I’ve been blessed with some great opportunities, and life has awarded me the chance to do some amazing things. Right now, I want to seize those opportunities.”
Cena also acknowledged that raising a child requires a significant time commitment, something he feels he currently can’t provide. He added that he doesn’t want to make an “irresponsible choice” and bring a child into the world only to neglect them due to his work commitments.
“I don’t want to make an irresponsible choice and bring a life into the world that I won’t neglect — I don’t think that’s fair,” Cena concluded, pointing out the importance of being self-aware when it comes to parenting.
The Reaction: Divided Opinions on Social Media
The honesty and openness of Cena’s explanation have sparked a debate online, with fans split over whether his reasoning is selfish or self-aware. Some users felt Cena’s comments reflected selfishness, arguing that prioritizing career over family made him appear self-centered.
One person on X (formerly Twitter) wrote, “That’s a weird way of saying ‘I’m too self-centered to have a child.’”
However, many others appreciated Cena’s self-awareness and praised his decision not to have children if he felt he couldn’t give them the attention and love they deserve.
Another user countered, writing, “Having a kid you won’t care for just because you want to have kids is extremely selfish. In what world is being aware of the fact you wouldn’t be a good parent selfish? That’s selfless.”
One fan commented, “He seems very self-aware knowing that he is not willing to sacrifice his time to raise children. It’s not for everyone.”
Others felt that Cena’s realness was refreshing, with some pointing out that many parents often fail to recognize the level of sacrifice, patience, and time required to raise a child the right way.
“Very real. Many parents bring children into the world without thinking about the level of sacrifice and time it takes to raise them the right way,” one fan shared.
Cena’s Career: Priorities and Opportunities
Cena’s career has been incredibly busy and successful, with major roles in Hollywood and a strong presence in the WWE. His most recent role was in the upcoming movie Heads of State alongside Idris Elba. Cena’s ability to balance his career and personal life has made him a role model to many, and his decision to delay starting a family is in line with his overall life philosophy of being mindful and intentional with major life choices.
It’s clear that Cena’s decision to forego having children for now stems from a place of consideration, wanting to make sure that if he does become a parent, he can offer his children the time and attention they deserve.
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Conclusion: Self-Aware or Selfish?
While Cena’s comments may seem cold or unemotional to some, his approach to parenting is ultimately rooted in self-awareness. Rather than rushing into parenthood without considering the significant sacrifice required, Cena is prioritizing his career and personal goals for now — something that has clearly divided opinion. Whether you see it as selfish or sensible, Cena’s honesty about his current priorities is undeniably refreshing in a world where many feel pressured to follow traditional life milestones.
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